Janet Jay

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    Dear Janet,

    This is a little embarrassing, but I’m pretty inexperienced sexually. Ever since I’ve come to [Carnegie Mellon] I’ve tried to find someone to hook up with, but it seems like I never have any luck. I’m a nice guy, I try to listen to what girls say and be nice to them, but nobody ever wants to take it to the next level. What am I doing wrong?

    —Not Ever Really Dated

    Pillbox | February 5, 2007
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    Dear Janet,

    It’s horrible, but I don’t particularly like my sister. She wants to be a doctor and I “just” want to get married and have kids, and my parents have always been prouder of her. I am getting married this summer, and my parents are planning to make me ask her to be my maid of honor. I REALLY don’t want to, because I honestly don’t like her very much. What can I do?

    Pillbox | January 29, 2007
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    Dear Janet,

    I have a really good friend from high school who just got engaged this summer. Normally that would not be a problem, but we are only eighteen! It seems to me she just likes the idea of getting married, and I am worried that if she marries this guy it won’t last. What can I say to her to convince her to wait a while?

    -So Concerned About Really Eager Darling

    Pillbox | January 22, 2007